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The #1 vibrator of all time…

Dear Lilith - My husband dragged me to a sex shop to buy some toys to spice up our love life. The lady there talked to us about a clit vibrator. Have you heard of these? Are they any good? - Liking the old way Well, hello there Oldie - I'm sorry to hear you…
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The Hubster Still Romances Me!

So, the Hubster and I took a wee getaway in Toronto recently. The sweet man, bless him, ordered the Romance Package at Pantages Hotel. We entered a suite littered with rose petals with a lovely display of wine and chocolate-covered strawberries on prominent display in the large living room. We followed the rose-petal path from…
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Ordinary Abuse: A true story of incest & rape (A Dear Lilith Sex Ed Column)

It's Free! Grab your copy here... I've been raped...multiple times. I am not a victim; I’m a survivor. Here's my story... Ordinary Abuse is Lilith Darville's unapologetic response about one of her characters. Throughout her teen years, Lilith Darville was sexually assaulted repeatedly--by her stepfather and neighbors. Through her eyes, we see a few of the…
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3 Things All Men Need To Know About The Female Orgasm

According to the author, there are three things you should know about the female orgasm: 1. If it takes men two to five minutes of direct stimulation to have an orgasm, the average female needs about 20 minutes of direct stimulation. 2. Women also experience the equivalent of ‘blue balls’. 3. Aside from the obvious…
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Take the Kink Test

While cruising the Net, I found this little gem. Erotica author, Christina Mandara, challenges us to take this kink test and find out! I got 14 out of 16. What did you get?
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Happy Marriage, Boring Sex

Q: I’m 48 years old and happily married to a wonderful man for 17 years. Our kids are in their teens leaving us more free time to spend together. Problem is that for the most part all the romance is gone from our sex. I get that when the kids were smaller we only had…
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Put Him in the Mood!

This email I received is a perfect example of what I'll be sharing right here on Dear Lilith: Hello Lilith, I'm going on a backwoods camping trip with my boyfriend and hoping he'll pop the question. I'm dreading being without makeup, although he's always telling me I don't need it. Yes, I'm kind of high…
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